How to Talk to Your Kids About UFOs (Without the Scary Stuff)

How to Talk to Your Kids About UFOs (Without the Scary Stuff)
July 20, 2026 by Mark English

If your kid has asked “are UFOs real?”, here’s the honest, non-scary answer: yes and no — depending on what you mean.

“UFO” just means unidentified flying object — something in the sky nobody has explained yet. That doesn’t mean aliens. Most UFO reports turn out to be planes, weather balloons, drones, or unusual clouds. But a small number of cases — like the U.S. Navy’s 2004 “Tic Tac” encounter, where trained pilots and radar tracked an object performing moves no known aircraft could — are still officially unexplained by the government itself. That’s genuinely interesting, and it’s OK to tell your kid: “nobody knows yet, and that’s part of what makes it fun to think about.”

The best way in is real cases, not movies. Movies invent aliens; real UFO reports are usually a pilot, a radar operator, or a family on a ranch describing something specific they saw, that then either got explained (Roswell) or didn’t (Tic Tac). That distinction — solved vs. unsolved — is a great critical-thinking exercise for an 8-12 year old, and it’s a lot less scary than “aliens are coming.”

Wait… UFOs are a thing now?! walks through four of the real, documented cases exactly this way — what was reported, what was investigated, and what we actually know today — so you don’t have to fact-check Wikipedia mid-bedtime-story. See what’s inside →